This Lady Assaulted Me And Verbally/Mentally Abused Me Over 3 Years

The A I Lay Dying line-up implosion has been some form of a saga that has developed for one of the best a part of the final two months. In case you missed some items of the story, the primary to go away (within the public eye, anyway) was bassist Ryan Neff with barely any assertion, after which their tour supervisor give up amidst rumors that As I Lay Dying‘s European tour was canceled.

Then, guitarist Ken Susi give up the band saying his “private morals have just lately been examined to a breaking level,” adopted instantly by drummer Nick Pierce quitting and saying he must “distance myself from the band in an effort to retain my private well being and integrity.” Phil Sgrosso later give up, earlier than Lambesis himself acknowledged that he would stick with it with a complete new lineup and acknowledged that “there was an unhealthy atmosphere that made leaving for a brand new tour with the earlier lineup unrealistic.”

Nevertheless the story saved unfolding, and as of yesterday (November 26), disturbing footage of Lambesis in heated exchanges together with his now ex-wife, Dany Lambesis, surfaced on-line. The anonymously leaked clips, which confirmed Tim in a visibly agitated state, have sparked widespread dialogue.

The movies depict troubling moments, together with verbal and bodily aggression on Tim’s half. In a single clip, he flips over a desk throughout an argument. In each clips, Tim may also be seen repeatedly putting himself whereas showing overwhelmed. These visuals have fueled rumors of home violence, which first emerged final month following the streaks of sudden departures.

In response to the rumors, Dany, who has reverted to her maiden identify following their separation, issued an announcement denying allegations of home violence. Now, at the moment (November 27), Tim responded with a proper assertion addressing the footage and the allegations surrounding it, revealing that he’s pursuing a restraining order towards Dany and confirming an ongoing home violence investigation.

Tim alleges years of abuse by Dany and acknowledged he filed for divorce this week. He additionally attributed his bodily outbursts within the leaked footage to what he described as “anxiety-filled reactions.” His assertion is as follows:

“There may be at the moment a restraining order and a home violence investigation being filed towards Dany Norris (previously Lambesis). Something she is saying now’s to distract folks away from that to as an alternative focus alone inappropriate (however not unlawful) reactions to those anxiety-inducing interactions.

“This lady assaulted me and verbally/mentally abused me over 3 years. I took the much-needed and overdue step to go away her yesterday by delivering divorce papers. That’s the reason there have been makes an attempt at retaliation towards me on-line at the moment that pale compared to what’s going to actually be the main focus of the courts.

The next evidences are a part of the case:

• A number of movies of her assaulting me
• Movies of her chasing me round the home with a knife or scissors
• Video of her insisting that I delete all different accounts of her bodily assaulting me beneath menace of her knocking me out with a weapon held over my head
• Pictures of a black-eye she gave me with witness accounts of the occasion
• Witness accounts of me being threatened if I attempt to depart, even quickly

I’m sure she is going to counter by attempting to show my anxiety-filled reactions and defenses, however please keep in mind that reacting in panic by hurting myself is much totally different than what I’ve listed above.

The timing of those public assaults on-line is as a result of I served her with divorce papers yesterday after many days of her pleading for me to remain whereas additionally flipping backwards and forwards to trying to exert abusive management.

That is blatantly a retaliation for me lastly leaving a relationship I ought to have run from a very long time in the past.”

The unstable dynamics between Tim and Dany seem to have contributed to the mass exodus of Tim’s As I Lay Dying bandmates. Their exit statements hinted at conflicts over private ethics and integrity, with many citing experiences throughout the band as a breaking level. The turmoil has even prolonged to Austrian Demise Machine, one other mission of Tim’s.

This newest controversy provides to an already checkered historical past for Tim Lambesis. In 2013, he was convicted in a murder-for-hire plot through which he tried to solicit an undercover officer to kill his then-wife. After serving roughly two years of a six-year sentence, he was paroled and has since remarried twice.